One of the common frustrations of parenthood is the daily struggle to get our kids to listen and behave in ways that pleases us. Part of the problem lies in the conflict of needs. The adult need is for some semblance of cleanliness, order, courtesy and routine. The children couldn't care less. As I reflect on my interactions with Dana, it's no wonder I'm often thought of as the strict, un-cool Mom - the one who was always making her do what she didn't want to do and obey rules after … [Read more...]